Join us on Zoom for a day of teachings and conversations that will invite you into practices of body, mind, and heart that will support and sustain your spirit for the difficult work of supporting people through life and death.
In a day of inspiring sessions and meaningful connection, attendees will develop resources, experience relief, and build resilience for managing the grief and stress that accumulate in their lives.
If another day on Zoom feels daunting, be assured that schedule has been developed to ensure ample time away from the screen and the keynote and breakout sessions will be interactive and experiential.
Cost: $75
Schedule
9:00 Welcome
9:10 - 11:10 Keynote: Kirsten DeLeo
11:10 - 11:20 BREAK
11:20 - 12:20 Breakout Session 1
12:20 - 1:20 LUNCH
1:20 - 2:20 Breakout Session 2
2:20 - 2:30 BREAK
2:30 - 3:30 Breakout Session 3
3:30 - 4:00 Closing Session
STAYING PRESENT IN THE FACE OF LOSS AND DEATH
With Kirsten DeLeo, author of “Present Through The End. A Caring Companion’s Guide For Accompanying The Dying”
KEYNOTE
How can we keep showing up for patients and families facing the realities of suffering and grief day after day?
Caring for dying patients is deeply meaningful, yet how we respond to this question poses an ongoing challenge, both on a professional and human level. Kirsten DeLeo is one of the pioneers in the emerging field of contemplative-based end-of-life care. In her keynote and workshop, she will share practical resources from this approach that uses mindfulness and reflective methods to develop and sustain compassionate presence, resilience and authentic listening and communication. This session is highly interactive. It will offer you the space and the tools to explore and connect with your inner resources of wellbeing and bring your authentic self to the bedside.
Bio: Kirsten DeLeo, meditation teacher, spiritual care trainer and author
Kirsten has been teaching in the field of contemplative care for more than twenty-five years and has worked in palliative care/hospice as an educator, counselor and volunteer chaplain in the US and Europe. She helped pioneer "Authentic Presence”, one of the first training programs in contemplative end-of-life care in the US. Kirsten is a long-time Buddhist practitioner and known for her clarity and warmth. She loves to explore the deeper dimensions of caregiving in her podcast for Authentic Presence. Based on her experience, she wrote the award-winning book “Present Through The End. A Caring Companion’s Guide for Accompanying the Dying". Kirsten lives with her family on the West Coast of Ireland where she supports the development of a Spiritual Care Centre for people facing illness and loss. Website link.
Breakout sessions
There will be three breakout sessions throughout the day. At registration, you will be asked to preference the three breakout sessions (of 5 options) that you would most like to attend.
Breakout sessions (and Zoom breakout rooms) will be pre-assigned before the workshop.
Whether your grief is anticipatory, ambiguous, simple, or complex, it is highly personal and can have a major physical and emotional impact. It is common to experience grief as fatigue, confusion and loneliness. Since emotions are physiological events, grief resides in the body. We will use conscious breathing, somatic mindfulness, gentle yoga and stillness as a way to open to the grief process.
Bio: Susannah Sanfilippo has practiced yoga for over 25 years and is the founder of Yoga for your Grieving Heart, a six-week yoga and bereavement program. She is an instructor for Sea Change Yoga, a trauma-informed nonprofit supporting underprivileged populations, where she instructs weekly classes at McAuley Residence, a residential treatment facility for women. Susannah has been trained in hatha, restorative, trauma-focused yoga, moving meditation and chair yoga in group settings and privately. Along with her training in classical yoga, she has in-depth studies in breathing practices and restorative yoga for relaxation, pain reduction and emotional balance. Website.
Yoga for your grieving heart
with Susannah Sanfilippo
“For a time I rest in the grace of the world and I am free.”
--Wendell Berry, Peace of Wild Things
Surrounded by bird song, rooted trees, and fresh air, explore ways to engage a calmer mind, a fuller heart, and a more connected spirit. Building a deep and reciprocal relationship with the natural world is an incredibly powerful way to stay grounded, connected and present. This can be particularly true for people engaged in work around death and dying, as there are so many models of life and death cycles in the natural world. In this session, we will explore a handful of simple practices that can deepen your sense of belonging and relationship with nature. We will practice outdoors if weather permits because it’s spring in Maine and why not? However, all practices are adaptable for use indoors and/or with folks experiencing limited mobility. Participants will leave with immediately applicable ideas for deepening their connection with the natural world and a resource list to further support their explorations for themselves and clients.
Bio: Corie Washow is a conditionally licensed clinical mental health counselor practicing in Freeport, ME. After many years in both social services and environmental education, she chose to bridge the two by becoming an eco-therapist. She believes the well-being of humans and the earth are inextricably linked and strives to include this relationship in all of her clinical work. Corie was also a hospice volunteer for about 15 years in all sorts of hospice settings, from outpatient pediatric/adult visiting to residential care to bereavement. Website link.
Wild-Hearted Wellness: Nature based-Practices
with Corie Washow
In this hour you will experience a practice that will leave you relaxed and renewed. You will leave with tools to easily incorporate into your daily life to keep you connected to an unlimited source of compassion, build resilience, reduce stress and prevent burnout.
Bio: Arline Saturdayborn, ChIME 2014, has been studying, practicing, and teaching mindfulness for over 35 years. She has trained with many teachers including Jon Kabat-Zinn and is a trained Sustainable Compassion Training Teacher. She has offered these trainings to Peace-/builders in Bosnia, Teachers ,and Caregivers in the New England Area. She is currently a professor at USM in Portland offering Sustainable Compassion Training as a full semester course through the College of Science,Technology and Health. Website link.
Sustainable Compassion Training
with Arline Saturdayborn
Learn how to cultivate your inner wisdom to find peace and healing through writing.
In this workshop the instructor will teach you to combine memory, stress and story to develop the essential art of self-compassion in your daily life. Reclaim your voice to create health and renewal.
Bio: Catharine Murray is a local author, poet, teacher and writing guide. Her memoir Now You See the Sky (Akashic Books, 2018), the story of her son’s illness and death, has been described as “a tender, love-filled story” by Kirkus Review and "an extraordinary memoir, forthright, honest and haunting” by the Portland Press Herald. In January 2019, it topped their best-seller list for Non-Fiction.
Murray earned her BA from Harvard University and completed her MFA in creative writing at University of Southern Maine’s Stonecoast Writing program where she served as Creative Non-fiction Editor for The Stonecoast Review. Murray lectures and leads workshops on healing through writing, listening and trauma-resolution. Her expertise on healing informs her work with healthcare providers, clients and students. Venues for her lectures and workshops have included Harvard University, Seattle Children’s Hospital, Hasbro Children’s Hospital, Maine State Prison, and the University of New England. Website.
Writing To Heal
with Catharine Murray
This interactive workshop presented by the Harbour Singers Hospice Chorus will provide an introduction to the practice of bedside singing as offered to those at the end of life, their families, and caregivers. Participants will have the opportunity to experience the positive and healing effects of participatory, communal singing in the roles of both the giver and recipient of the gift of song. Learn about the power of presence and grace at the bedside of the dying, using your voice and the power of song as a vehicle for comfort, peace and serenity.
No prior singing experience is necessary, just bring an open heart and mind to the session.
Bio: Harbour Singers is a community of caring volunteers who offer healing through the gift of song. Singing in small groups at bedside, we support persons with life-limiting illness or at end of life, in care settings such as hospice, hospital, nursing facility, or at home, throughout the Southern Maine region. Website.
The Gift of Song
with Harbour Singers Hospice Chorus
*There will be three breakout sessions throughout the day. At registration, you will be asked to preference the three breakout sessions (of 5 options) that you would most like to attend.
Breakout sessions (and Zoom breakout rooms) will be pre-assigned before the workshop.
Cost: $75